I believe the coincidenceIn my country every year around Christmas people gather money for sick children.Mainly poor people and middle class ones.Rarely wealthy people donate money for the initiative.Without bashing rich people, it is pretty clear to me now very often, those who have less give more.And this campaign gathers much money, even though its a crisis now.I really dont wish to think rich people are evil and for the most part I manage not to.But life proves over and over again mercy and compassion do not always come hand in hand with wealth.How otherwise to explain why mostly less fortunate people donate for the sick children every year?Its an open question.Feel free to give your opinion on the matter, if you want.
Indifference is better than interferenceIndifference is better than interference
I came to the conclusion its best to be indifferent to others, than trying to change them and criticizing them.Because let be honest-few people manage to offer constructive criticism to others. People are judging in most cases.Better to not care about others, but not preventing them of living their lives and chasing their dreams.And this is far from egocentrism.You can still be following your goals, putting yourself first, without thinking the world revole around you only and being a nasty person who is deliberately ruining others`lives.If one is living and let living,it cannot be that bad or outrageous.It is to choose the less of two evils, which in general I consider to be wise strategy.
What if I dont feel the need for it?Society is very good at making those, who are different, to feel quilty and inferior.Many examples I can point-the choice to have children or not to have,being gay, being single, to be freelanced or working the standart 9-to-5...Actualy these are among the most common reasons for people being ridiculed and criticized.Society wants all of us stuffed into offices all day, being married with a few kids, etc.Society unfortunately dont encourage free thinking for the most part and I really dont need to point examples for that.You only need to dig into mankind`s hystory.
But what about the needs of people and not the "shoulds" society throws at us?
Well, no matter how fulfilling family life can be to some,others some will always be feeling better on their own.There is a moment in everyone`s life, when we realise what are our true needs.Everyone over 18 years old is good to find their own preferences and be extremely careful, when approaching serious matters like marriage and parenthood.They